Thursday, 31 December 2009
A blessing on your year 2010
Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners, or sit in the seat of mockers.
But his delight is in the law of the Lord and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.
Psalm 1
Wednesday, 30 December 2009
Learning to just "bee"
A vineyard of note
Tuesday, 29 December 2009
Monday, 28 December 2009
Our funky hostess - don't ask!
Tuesday, 22 December 2009
Sunday, 20 December 2009
Thursday, 17 December 2009
and the first present of the season
Random events to make me smile
Wednesday, 16 December 2009
Where the wild things are
Friday, 11 December 2009
Waving at Trains
This evening I had cause to smile at the end of the day. The smile “prompt” came in the form of two small girls with their father at the railway station before mine. They were sitting on a fence, held secure by their father, and they were waving and smiling as if their lives depended on it. For the 30 seconds or so it took for the doors to open and a few passengers to alight, the children were reaching into the draughty, slightly smelly carriage with the fragrance and warmth of their guileless grins.
After we had passed by, I started to wonder why it is we wave at trains when we are children. Is it a competition to see how many strangers will wave back? Is it the joy in the expression of an adult caught off guard for a brief moment?
I suspect that we all just need to connect. In our deepest being, we don’t want to be alone and watch a train go by without connecting with one of the neutral expressions in the carriage. For a split second, there is a life change, a thought is paused, a worry halted, a frustration shelved, and the smile shatters the gloom. There is anonymity in the abandon. We will never meet, you will never know my name, but I can go wild and be pleased to see you, and if you are quick enough, you might be wild back.
After we had passed by, I started to wonder why it is we wave at trains when we are children. Is it a competition to see how many strangers will wave back? Is it the joy in the expression of an adult caught off guard for a brief moment?
I suspect that we all just need to connect. In our deepest being, we don’t want to be alone and watch a train go by without connecting with one of the neutral expressions in the carriage. For a split second, there is a life change, a thought is paused, a worry halted, a frustration shelved, and the smile shatters the gloom. There is anonymity in the abandon. We will never meet, you will never know my name, but I can go wild and be pleased to see you, and if you are quick enough, you might be wild back.
Saturday, 5 December 2009
Bonding
I am fascinated by “the ties that bind”. For me, they are those instances in life where you feel at one with another person, as if you are sitting on a comfy sofa, opposite their brain, realising you are functioning at the same level, thinking similar thoughts, being amused by similar circumstances. These ties are often very happy across cultural boundaries. I had a glimpse of this yesterday. I was waiting for a habitually late train. There was another redhead sat at the windy station, knitting. I also knit on trains. When I lived in S. Africa, I used to travel in third class on the train and sit with the African ladies and their needles. So, here I am, the immigrant, talking to a local about knitting – sock patterns we have known and loved, stitches we have not been able to master etc. As the only white person in third class, much of the bonding over the needles was done by friendly nudges, winning smiles and giggles. Folk arts are very folky. Just as the fingers were designed to touch and relate and love, so they communicate silently the artistic wedge inside a culture. They wave magically, producing legion colourful clothing, decorative arts, furnishings and domestic functional items – an extension of the heart.
(written in July 2008 for my now defunct blog chaisociety.wordpress.com)
(written in July 2008 for my now defunct blog chaisociety.wordpress.com)
Apologies
Sorry for not posting much recently. For the last few weeks I've had a headache the size of Yorkshire, and it ain't going away. I went to the opticians as it is located mostly behind the right eye, but there is nothing wrong with my eyes. I even saw a photo of my retina.
Could be blood pressure, could be hormonal. Maybe I'm growing another brain. Will have to see.
Could be blood pressure, could be hormonal. Maybe I'm growing another brain. Will have to see.
Wednesday, 2 December 2009
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